Intentional Living & Loving

love mindset engineer

Hi, I’m Amber Castano, a Love Mindset Engineer. It is my purpose to help people who don’t recognize their once-fantastic relationships and lives to grow into something they are in love with again.


Does your life have you in Love or in Heartbreak?

-Amber Castano

Love Mindset Engineer

Relationship Coaching for Singles & Couples with Baggage

Have you experienced a trauma in your life that is affecting your relationship, or the rest of your life?

I know something about you… You’re here because you want a life that is fulfilling and a relationship that is deeply satisfying.

But I see you holding yourself back. You know the thoughts that keep you in doubt and fear, questioning whether or not you’ve made the right choices, or if you have it in you to create a life you love. Deep internal inquiry is great and I encourage everyone to participate in it, but being stuck in this mind-loop of fear and false beliefs isn’t serving you anymore. You have a purpose, and it isn’t to live in misery. 


Every trigger is an opportunity and a call to awaken and develop yourself.


That recurring fight you have with your partner, or (if single) that one issue that always tends to tear things apart – good news - that is a flag for growth! It is NOT something that separates you from the pack, threatening your happiness and couple-status through all of your existence.

It’s my job to help you change your relationship to all the things keeping you stuck so you can have everything you want.

I’m passionate about giving you the support you need to make your home a powerhouse for romance, passion and vitality - no matter what your wound history is. Support that will take you from living in fear into a life full of intimacy, unity, understanding and compassion. NOW IS YOUR TIME to live a life like a King and Queen (or any combination that best fits your situation), ruling their castle together.



private coaching with

amber castano

Your dream life takes BOLD ACTION and it all starts right here. Together let's build you one hell of a Love Story.




High Performance Academy

Amber is working on becoming a certified High Performance Coach™ with the High Performance Institute. Brendon Burchard is the founder of HPI and is said to be the highest-level coaching certification in the world. Brendon Burchard is a 3-time New York Times bestselling author, and one of the most-watched, quoted, and followed personal development trainers in history. SUCCESS Magazine and O, The Oprah Magazine have both named him one of the most influential leaders in personal growth and achievement.


Robbins-Madanes Coach

Amber has been trained in Strategic Intervention Strategies for Level 1, Advanced/Elite and Advanced Relationship Training. Robbins-Madanes is the official Coach Training School of Anthony Robbins. Amber was trained by Mark and Magali Peysha. Magali is an expert coach, senior teacher, and she spearheads curriculum development and new training programs at RMT. She began her work with her husband Mark Peysha, Cloe Madanes, Tony Robbins in 2002 helping to create the intervention films included in RMT Core Training. Mark is a Harvard-trained scholar and one of the foremost coach trainers in the world. He’s trained over 8,000 coaches at the certification level and his free trainings reach 500,000 people per month.


Kundalini Reiki Master

Amber became a Reiki Master in the Kundalini discipline in 2009. Kundalini Reiki is an interaction of Reiki (intelligent universal energy) and Kundalini (raw life force). The Kundalini greatly strengthens the Reiki, while the Reiki tempers the Kundalini, rendering it perfectly safe to use.


Theta Healing Practitioner

Amber received ThetaHealing certification in 2008. The ThetaHealing technique is using the Theta brain state, or the state in which a hypnosis and other modalities can access deep-seated limiting beliefs, in order to modify them to help the client reach a deeper fulfilling experience of life. 


What clients are saying...

Amber is a very kind, authentic, caring coach! I love the strategies that you’ve coached me on! It has been very empowering and I look forward to our next session! Thank you so much!
— Jean-Henri K.
Amber is always very professional. She always provides me with great insight that has really helped through some tough situations. I can always count on her to give me thoughtful responses and turn to her when I am dealing with issues in my personal life. Amber has been a main source of guidance during some very turbulent times for me. Highly recommend!
— Sarah B.
I have been truly impressed with Amber’s ability to be objective and unbiased. She is so non-judgmental... it just makes the whole experience so easy to open up to her. She has been so welcoming to both of us. There is no siding, and it has been a game-changer for me.
— Andy P.
Every time I work with her she reveals a new depth about herself. There is this amazing ability to go so deep without trepidation. And then she flips my perception like that!
— Olivia M.
You inspired me to be free. You were just so happy and light, and you made me want to be that way. Thank you.
— Ines N.
Believe me, I had my doubts. But this was truly very helpful. I reached what I came here for. Thank you for everything.
— Kristin S.